Best Marriage Or Relationship Counselor Hamilton Near Me

4worldlovers: “Always arguing, can’t bring things up, they get defensive every time, small things get blown up into big huge fights. Never felt this when we first got together but now I feel this way most days now.”

“I can’t believe they did this to me. We talked about other couples we knew who had affairs, never imagined it would happen to us. I am so confused. Was our marriage a sham right from the start?”

“I get dismissed all the time, like my feelings don’t matter. We rarely spend any time together and when we do it’s always with the kids or friends. We haven’t been intimate either for a long time, it’s like we are living as roommates. I don’t know if things will ever change.”

I get it. You probably have even been to therapy before, right? If you are here searching for help yet again, my ask is that you don’t throw in the towel quite yet. Imagine for a second things being different. I know it’s hard, but just imagine. If there is even an ounce of hope inside you, give me a call. Let’s talk. Things can be different.

Hello! My name is Paul and as an Advanced Relational Therapist, I provide marriage and relationship counselling in Burlington, Ontario. I have helped hundreds of couples just like you to repair, reconnect and rebuild.

Real conversations, no useless “how did that make you feel” questions. We will chat like real people, not checking off boxes.

Unlike many counselling modalities, our sessions will be direct and to the point. No hiding behind some text book rules of what should or shouldn’t be said. I will help you stay focused.

Not all arguments are fifty fifty. Sometimes it’s ninety ten. And sometimes it’s all you.

Customized homework just for you to help implement what is discussed in session. There will be accountability on whether the strategies were given a try at home and look at what went well and what didn’t.

Not all couples counsellors are pro-marriage. I am! I help couples understand how they are at, how they got here and where to go from here.

Typical marriage counselling is aimed at improving relationships over a two year period. We do it differently. We will strive to make drastic changes that will quickly impact the relationship.

Being able to talk with your husband and feel like he is actually listening to you.

4worldlovers: How you feel is important, and we are here to listen without judgement and give you space to reflect and process your thoughts, behaviours, and emotions.

Do you feel as if you're sinking or stuck, and all you want is to feel like yourself again?

Do you want to learn how to increase your self-esteem and get back to who you were?

You'd like to know your strengths and live in alignment with your values.

You want to be free from constant worries or low mood

Do you feel disconnected from your partner and are losing hope?

Do you want to know that your partner cares about you and that you have each other's back?

You'd like to stop having the same arguments over and over. You don't want to try to talk or "communicate" any longer because what you're doing isn't working. You're trapped.

It's not the fault of anyone. It takes two to tango, and the truth is that it's not one person's fault or the other; it's the pattern that the two of you fall into. Reach out and we'll work together to slow it down.

"Naming an emotion begins the process of regulating and reflecting on it.